Please tell me how all the great parents manage their children's tablet usage?

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• Anonymous1954 Nov 6, 2024
  I have been talking about the rules since I was one year old. Watching an episode is an episode, and I will close it yourself after watching it. Depend on how long it takes to say yes first, and turn it off yourself when the time is up. The pad depends on asking your parents for it, and you can't open it yourself, even if it's on the table. Finally, don't play with mobile phones and ipads in front of children.
• Anonymous11307 Nov 6, 2024
  1. Children's ideas are not good or bad. 2. The human brain does not have a delete button: you want to accelerate, but you don't want to accelerate. As parents, they only need guidance to put off the so-called "bad" things and do the "good" things first. Assuming that you are already in elementary school, you can read books for 5 minutes, write homework for 5 minutes, and then go to play. Note that there are only 5 minutes of compulsion. First, the human brain likes simple things by nature, and 5 minutes is simple enough; However, children's time concept is the same as that of growing people. Their 5 minutes may be equivalent to 25 minutes for adults. If it is stipulated that the homework is completed, it is uncertain and there will be compulsion. When there is compulsion, there is repression, and when there is repression, everything becomes ugly. Basically, you are guiding your child's desires, but the premise is that you have to know what desires are before you can guide them. Otherwise, it may be counterproductive. Because people think that rejection is the delete key of the mind, but it is actually the throttle. Therefore, in the process of education, it should be all accepted. They are learning to create, not because they have been rejected the game, but because they find it less interesting than this. (If you look carefully, you will find that all games are repetitive. This repetition will only bring boredom, not interest) In addition, it is also important to do it yourself. Because children often don't understand what you say, but watch what you do. Your actions are words in themselves. (The energy you generate at home will also have an impact. Generate as much positive energy as possible.) Children are more likely to be happy than adults, so it may not be a big problem for them to stay at home all day. But if an adult stays at home and is told that he can't surf the Internet, have no opposite-sex communication, or drink alcohol with the same sex, it will be suffocated. Therefore, it is very important to take your children outdoors and communicate with their actual children. Note: Of course you can be like all parents, but note that you can suppress elementary school, junior high school, and high school, and just say college. But college and beyond, he will compensate for everything missing in "childhood". What is repressed will never disappear, and he will appear again. Maybe I will indulge in games later, not because of how fun the games are, but because of depression. For college students, some play mobile phones and games all day. It's not how much mobile phones and games are played, but because of rejection.
• Anonymous11379 Nov 6, 2024
  Doesn't ios have a family management mode? The original soundtrack google family on android and kaspersky's safe kids are easy to use, I wonder if the latter has an ios version
• Anonymous11380 Nov 6, 2024
  Look at tablets every day Nothing bad about it It's just technical means to limit him to watch youtube kids only That is
• Anonymous2638 Nov 6, 2024
  @ Anonymous11380 don't have to think about the impact on eyesight?
• Anonymous4479 Nov 6, 2024
  @ Anonymous6565 # 2 This statement is heard endlessly, and I almost believed it. Do you think that in your child's eyes, the excitement you give you by taking him out to play is higher than games? It's not like we haven't come from that age
• Anonymous11381 Nov 6, 2024
  The screen usage time of iPhone can be managed. But whether children can be stopped from playing pads is not only a technical problem, but also an educational problem. Technology can only manage children who obey the rules. If they don't, even if you close your pad, he has countless ways to get it from other sources.
• Anonymous5913 Nov 6, 2024
  WeChat teen mode is useless at all. What is turned off is just a homepage. Children can search through WeChat or get more videos and games from their own collection of small videos. And I've found teen mode quitting by itself more than once.
• Anonymous11382 Nov 6, 2024
  What software does the router detect, specifies the usage time, and supervises it in the background
• Anonymous11383 Nov 6, 2024
  I feel that it is more useful to lead by example. Don't play yourself. Then bring the kids to do other things with you.
• Anonymous11384 Nov 6, 2024
  1. With iPad, the iOS system can limit the usage time, which is not very accurate and better than nothing. In the family mode, children's account needs to apply to the main account to download the App, extend the usage time, and make in-App purchases (the main account will receive an iMessage message and display an review button). 2. Restrict Internet access through routers, such as Huawei routers, which have relatively complete restriction functions: specific devices (mobile phones/computers/tablets/TV boxes), specific URLs (I banned all video websites), specific apps, usage period, usage duration, etc. There are some errors in duration statistics. The combination of the two is better.
• Anonymous8977 Nov 6, 2024
  Using pi as password, now my son can write down 100 decimal places
• Anonymous718 Nov 6, 2024
  A lot of guidance is required in the early stage I can't finish this one sentence Now we're playing for herself Because I really don't have time to help her convey the homework on DingTalk
• Anonymous11385 Nov 6, 2024
  Different children will have different situations. Combine dredging and blocking. When I was a child, if I didn't touch it at all, I might be addicted to it in revenge later. Situation in my home: 1. Guide the use, cultivate and play games with better quality, such as Plants vs. Zombies. 2. Cultivate children's ability of time planning and planning. 3. Make the rules. The current version is: if you can go to bed at 21:30 that night and play the next day, if you exceed it, stop for one day. 4. Adults set an example, don't indulge in electronic products, spend more time doing housework, reading, exercising, and watching their mobile phones less when accompanying their children.
• Anonymous11386 Nov 6, 2024
  @ Anonymous8977 Does it have any effect even if you remember 1000 digits
• Anonymous11387 Nov 6, 2024
  Only restrict the installation of app downloads, and then you can play Minecraft on weekends (mainly building). I don't think children need to restrict too much. Let them play what they can. The teachers are sure not to play with electronic products, but I still think they can play. He will search from bilibili and Douyin for things that he doesn't know (he often used to find some partial Chinese characters before, and recently he likes to find origami videos to watch himself learn to fold).
• Anonymous8570 Nov 6, 2024
  Nowadays, all major brands of tablets have apps that can be controlled, such as vivo's Child Guardian, which can set various permissions, usable apps, usage duration and so on.
• Anonymous11388 Nov 6, 2024
  Basically, the internet time is controlled on the router.
• Anonymous11389 Nov 6, 2024
  The router intercepts all domestic websites, and foreign websites force children to watch...
• Anonymous633 Nov 6, 2024
  It doesn't work better than parental controls for iOS